Alternative and non-religious funeral guide
The incredible power of technology gives us the opportunity to still feel that connection at a virtual funeral reception. Of course it will not be the same as being able to hug or hold hands, though there are ways to make it really meaningful and inclusive. This will leave you and all those who participate with a sense of warmth and well-being, knowing that you made the best of the situation you are faced with.
Send an invitation by post, email, via social media or by phone letting people know when your Virtual Hug will take place. Your invitation should include details of how you will connect, for example by Skype, Zoom, Facetime. Have a structure, much like an order or service, so people will know what you hope to achieve through holding this gathering.
Ask people to:
There are a number of resources and options available for setting up a virtual gathering. Below is a selection of free and accessible platforms you can use:
Here are guidelines to help you set-up each platform.
Install Zoom here and create a free Zoom account by clicking on 'sign up for free'
Open the Zoom app and sign in
Click on 'new meeting'
Click on the 'Invite' button at the bottom of the meeting window
A new window will appear allowing you to invite people using the list of contacts (if you have one) or through email and sending an invitation
Enter the recipients to who you'd like to send the invitation to
Wait for the recipients to join the call
Visit: https://teams.microsoft.com/_#/ and use the web app or download and install Microsoft Teams on your computer or phone. You can create a free online account if you don't already have one.
You will receive a link which you can use to invite others to join in. You can also use the 'Teams' tab on the left later to add more participants.
You can join a meeting by clicking on the email link or using the 'Teams' tab on the left and selecting 'join a group'
Select 'Join now' to enter the meeting
Download the Skype app here.
If you don't have an account you can create one by clicking 'Create an account'
Choose one of your friends you'd like to have a call with and click on the + icon to add people.
Pick the names of the people you'd like to video call and click 'add'
Start the group video call by clicking on the 'Cal' button at the top of the conversation panel
Download WhatsApp here. You can download it on iOS, Android, Windows Phone and Mac and PC
Open WhatsApp and set up an account if you haven't already got one
Tap the 'Chats' icon, followed by the 'New group' to add in participants
Click on 'Video call'
Open FaceTime on your iPhone or iPad
In FaceTime, choose the + at the top right
Enter the names or numbers of the people you want to call (you can add up to 30 contacts)
Tap 'video' to make a FaceTime video call
For House Party, you can set-up a number of virtual rooms so you can have multiple conversations happening at the same time. To set-up the Houseparty app please visit: