Talitha (sister-in-law)

posted 28/07/2023

Growing up with all sisters, I remember Leah and I always begging mom and dad for a brother. Fast forward ten plus years later, I finally got my brother through Carl. And not just a brother, but a “super cool British” brother I had told all my friends. But he was more than that. He was an amazing husband to Leah, an attentive Dad to Iris and Cirian, and someone passionate about working for the cause like Epilepsy. A memory I will always have of Carl is our chat while waiting in a drive thru chick-fil-a (an American fast food place he wanted to try, aside from the best Taco Bell). He never hesitated to ask any questions. He hit me with “so what do you like about your president and why?” while we waited in line. I had no answer for him then and he chimed in with his thoughts. For me, it just felt like a very brother-sister moment. We disagreed in the conversation, made jokes, and just chatted all while waiting in a drive thru. I want to thank Carl for his endless love for Leah and the kids and for being the big brother I always wished for as a kid. You lived a full life and I am blessed I was able to be a small part of it. We will miss you dearly and you will always be a part of our family.

Your sister,
Talitha

Brian Bates

posted 28/07/2023

Life tests us. Our limited understanding of this world can be uncomfortable. God knows! In the midst of sadness and confusion, He is aware, and always will be there for you. Lay your cares upon Him for peace and comfort.

Janette & kevin

posted 29/07/2023

You will be forever in our thoughts Carl. You were a wonderful daddy, husband and son. Earth's loss is heavens gain. Rest peacefully my love. Janette & Kev xxxx

Paul Charlesworth

posted 29/07/2023

Dear Leah, Iris, Ciaran, Ian, Keith & Mary,

Sending you all our love at this sad time. Our thoughts are with you all.

Love from Paul, Sarah, Jack & Amy Charlesworth.

Clare Pelham

posted 31/07/2023

Our wonderful friend and colleague, Carl, will be so very sadly missed by us all at the Epilepsy Society,
Clare Pelham.

Ann & Mike Robinson

posted 31/07/2023

As long as hearts remember
As long as hearts still care
We do not part with those we love
They’re with us everywhere.
Butterflies, white feathers
A bright star from up above.

Lorna Costley

posted 31/07/2023

My deepest heartfelt condolences to you dearest Mary & Keith. I’m deeply heartbroken to hear about your loss of your wonderful and beautiful son Carl. 😢😢 I wish I could be there to comfort you. Sending my love and prayers to you all xxxx

Louise Sutton-Webb

posted 31/07/2023

There are no words to help, but please know all of Carls family are in my thoughts.

Ric

posted 31/07/2023

A best friend, this still doesn’t seem real. Barely a day went by without the 3 of us messaging in all the years of our friendship. Carl was wonderful. He made me smile and laugh so hard I would cry. I’ll always miss him.

Amanda Cleaver

posted 01/08/2023

The first time I met Carl was when I interviewed him for his role at Epilepsy Society. I was bowled over by his personality as well as his obvious ability to do the job. I took a leap of faith and offered him the job on the spot. He didn't let me down and I was pleased to work alongside him for a year or so. I'm so sorry to hear such devastating news. Sending my love and best wishes to Leah and the family

Brian Charlesworth

posted 02/08/2023

Dear Leah, Iris, Ciaran, Ian, Keith & Mary,
A very difficult time for you all but we are all the better for knowing Carl,
We send you our deepest sympathies and you are in our thoughts on this sad time,
Love Brian and Fran

Paul Jones

posted 02/08/2023

You were the first friend I made when I moved to the village and the first person to ever ask if I wanted to see their comicbook collection. I hadn't realised it...but I'd waited 25 years to be asked that, and knowing you shared interests with me - books, TV and movies and other niche things...that me feel normal, and even validated in some way. I never thanked you for that, so thank you.

When we met I was struck by your honesty and integrity. You took delight in so many things - even small things, and you shared your feelings freely and openly. Many people lack that ability, it's always been seen as cooler to be a critic, so I admired you for being able to share the things you liked with such enthusiasm.

Your driving scared the hell out of me though! After our first cinema trip I started volunteering to drive...I'll miss winding you up about that - and several other private jokes we seemed to amass in such a short time.

I'll miss your cooking. I'll miss sharing movie trailers with you. I'll miss walking up the hill with you. You never finished the dark tower series - the ending is bad but I wanted to discuss it with you and so much more. I valued your opinion and I valued you, mate.

I'm sorry you're not here and I'm sorry I couldn't help you more in the end. I will miss you.

Kylie Bunting

posted 02/08/2023

I am so sorry for your loss Mary and Keith. Sending my thoughts & condolences to Carl's wife and children too.

Christina and Mark Jenkins

posted 02/08/2023

Dear Leah, Iris and Ciaran,

We are so sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you all at this very sad time. We have fond memories of good times we’ve spent together at the playground, having festive drinks and playing football.

Lots of love,
From
Christina, Mark, Dylan and Alice. Xxx

Gemma Wade & Lewis Wade

posted 03/08/2023

It might have been many years since our paths crossed when we were young, but the sadness we are feeling isn't lessened by the time passed. We can't imagine how it would feel to lose a sibling, so our love and thoughts go out to your dear twin brother Ian aswell as all your other family. Rest peacefully Carl. Gemma Wade & Lewis Wade

Eileen and Barney and family

posted 03/08/2023

Such a great loss but Carl will be remembered with fondness, smiles and love xx

Adam

posted 03/08/2023

Can’t believe the news. Rest in peace fella

Margaret Anderson

posted 03/08/2023

So sorry for your loss Mary and Keith our thoughts are with you both and the family.
Margaret and Graham

Cheryl and Michael Bunting

posted 04/08/2023

Dear Mary and Keith and all your beautiful family we are so sorry for your loss of a much loved son, twin brother, husband and daddy. We send you all our love and the biggest and warmest of hugs at this saddest of times. Cheryl and Michael. Xxxxx

Matt Donnelly

posted 05/08/2023

I can’t stop thinking about all the great times we’ve had together. Scraping through university. Travelling through Spain. Summers spent in Norfolk. As Ric has said, no more than a few days ever passed where we wouldn’t be in touch, having a laugh about football, books and films we’ve read, work and family life. I always loved our chats, and have still been expecting your name to pop up on my phone, even though I know it’s not possible. You’ve left me with a lifetime of great memories, but I wish we could have more. Sending my love to Leah and the family, I’m thinking of you all.

Mark & Aurelia Paton

posted 05/08/2023

Our deepest condolences. Carl was a true friend, confidante and mate. We will forever be grateful for his friendship and support during those difficult early days of raising children. You are in our thoughts and prayers Leah, Iris and Ciaran.

Yvonne and John

posted 07/08/2023

Bless you Carl, at peace with the Angels. Our thoughts and sincere condolences are with your family and friends. Our hearts go out to you all.

Yvonne, John and family.
Xxx

Matt Davis

posted 07/08/2023

I still can't believe that Carl's no longer with us. I'm so sorry for everyone's loss but I'm also glad that he was part of our lives - and he'll never be forgotten.

I've got nothing but great memories of Carl since we first met in 2006, from working together to hanging out together to holidaying together. Full of mischief and constantly getting into some kind of scrape, he'd always make me laugh and he always will. And I'll think of him every time someone says "It's AMAAAZING!" - although no one will ever say it quite like Carl did.

Anwar Beeharry

posted 08/08/2023

Carl, you will be missed greatly, in the short time we worked together you brought laughter happiness and support I always looked forward to our chats but I will remember them as fondly as I remember you. Rest in Peace

Lesley Michaelis

posted 08/08/2023

A passionate and committed Trustee whose enthusiasm, professional experience and collaborative nature enabled him to work so effectively with all of us at Bucks Mind. Carl, will be sadly missed but very much remembered. Sending our deepest sympathy to all his family and friends at this difficult time.
Lesley Michaelis.

Sandra Dewsberry

posted 09/08/2023

Although I never had the pleasure of meeting Carl (my first cousin once removed) I can tell by the messages left here that he was lovely, fun to be with, caring, very brave and had depth. He is clearly very loved and will be much missed. My heart goes out to his family and friends at this very sad time. Sincere condolences to Keith, Mary, Ian and Carl's family.
Thinking of you.
Sandra

Gordon Craig

posted 09/08/2023

Carl was so much more than great at his job. His unique skills and experience brought so much innovation to the fundraising & marketing team at the Epilepsy Society and the rewards of that will be reaped for years to come. Carl was a wonderful person to know who brought much to us as a friend, colleague, Manager and Mentor. He is and always will be sorely missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with Leah, Iris & Ciaran

Gordon Craig

Donna, Spencer and Owen

posted 09/08/2023

We wish we had words to lighten your agony but sometimes words are not enough.
Please accept our deepest condolences on your loss.
You’re all in our thoughts
Our hearts ache for you all x

Nicola Swanborough

posted 09/08/2023

You were a great colleague and a great friend, Carl. I will always feel privileged to have watched your life unfold from upstairs in comms at the Epilepsy Society. I will always cherish the conversations about Mad Men but most of all I will remember your complete love for Leah, Iris and Cieran. You are so greatly missed x

Nathan Draper, Epilepsy Society

posted 09/08/2023

Carl had an infectious smile and there are many things I will remember him beaming with joy about.

Just a few examples include: football (including mocking my fantasy football team!), how to use data and analytics for the good of the Epilepsy Society, and Bruce Springsteen (the Boss).

But his smile was always largest and most apparent when he talked about Leah, Iris and Ciaran.

He will always be remembered - and always missed.

Big Mallet

posted 10/08/2023

A fabulous friend and colleague. Working with Carl was always a delight. He made every meeting a joy, cracking jokes and sharing beautiful stories of his children. Our catch-ups through lockdown were a spark of happiness during an uncertain time where we discussed our love of films and compared house moving and kitten/puppy drama. We have so many memories, funny moments and stories we’ll cherish forever. He had so much passion for Epilepsy Society where he was a marketing and data champion, we’re grateful to have been on that journey with him.

We’ll miss Carl deeply. Our thoughts are with Leah, Iris, Ciaran and family during this incredibly sad time.

Lots of love Char, Steve, Maggie & Big Mallet team x

Lorraine

posted 03/07/2024

Thinking of you all,